Love Your Family

Family values

In today's fast moving world with all the many distractions - many of us forget easily their true values - waste time on wrong paths of life and suddenly life is over before it really started.

Take some time to think and feel what really matters to you - write down the first several points that appear truly of value to you in your life. Is it to have ...

1. a family - at home - being there for you, sharing all spare time with you ?
2. having a partner in life to hug you, to love you, to accept your love ?
3. friends that are there for you whenever you fall in life, when ever you need company or someone to talk to or help ?
4. job or money ?
5. career and recognition from other as a substitute of true love in our own relationship ?
6. freedom ? freedom to travel, freedom of doing business, freedom to select your job, education and home town ?
7. ... or do you have other values in your life ? If yes - which ones ?

Find the true eternal values of your life

Depending on your education, culture or country you live, grow up or work, you may be influenced by your surrounding and even pulled away or distracted from your own goal of life and true values.

Take a time - in peace and may be in nature - to think about what is of true innermost value to you. Are these ..
Christian values, religious values or spiritual values

Jesus Teachings of Love, sharing, helping, humanity and love toward all. Is God and harmony with God a true value of high ranking in your heart, soul and mind ? If YES, are you truly following and practicing such values in your own present life. Are you protecting such values, supporting the expansion of such values in a loving and peaceful way. Are you living such values of true Divine Love as taught for thousands of years ?

The only efficient and most powerful way to actually support a true value is by:

* Living it as a living example without imposing it on anyone else
* Admitting such inner values to the outside world, to your family members, friends, colleagues at work or customers
* Improving your own way of living and realizing these - your very own - values of life
* Investing in the improvements, maintenance, free distribution and free peaceful and loving expansion of your values among all those who are interested in or want to follow your own living example as a result of seeing you more happy in your family and with your partner, more happy in business or job, more successful in all you do and of course more healthy than the average human being.

If your true values of life are in real harmony with your innermost divine being, your soul and heart, then of course you will be more happy than others, more successful than others and far more healthy - inner and outer health - than others. True spiritual values practiced in full harmony with God and hence with your own innermost spiritual being always result in excellent well being and happiness in all situations of your eternal life.
Human values

Some of the greatest single value of any human - compared to nature and animals are:

* Freedom to move anywhere on this planet, freedom to travel, freedom to select a partner based on spiritual values or human values rather than survival values.
* Freedom to select job, business, location of living
* Freedom of education - freedom to learn what ever you want
* Freedom to do any time and anywhere what you love to do
* Freedom to change anything in life
* Freedom to make your very own personal decisions and realize those decisions on your own

Are you aware of your God given above treasures and if yes are you really using your God given freedom for the happiness and joy of all - of your family, friends, and all human society and creation as well ?
Cultural values - do you value the tradition and culture of your country or any other country on this planet

Different cultures have different values or restrictions. Cultural traditions may be enjoyable or a simple old fashioned burden. Cultural traditions may be adding value to life, adding color of life or restricting free divine development.

Some countries or cultures may vary in

* Freedom of religion and spiritual practices
* Freedom of speech or expression of opinion
* Freedom of meeting, public gathering, forming clubs or societies
* Political freedom or freedom to participate in the free and democratic development of society
* Freedom to travel in and out of a country - freedom to immigrate or emigrate - to come into a country as a foreigner and being allowed and fully accepted to live, work and socialize freely in his new host country or the freedom to leave your native country and travel or work in any other country on this entire planet
* Freedom to travel within your own country freely, move to a permanent new location within your country and start a job anywhere you want in your country. Even select freely the kind of job and kind of business you love to venture into

Are these values important to you ? Did you ever use them ? are you taking then for granted ? In past years and decades - I have been repeatedly traveling and working in dozens of different countries with almost full restriction to travel. Example in the late 1970-ties in Haiti to travel from Port-au-Prince to Cap Haiti we needed a permission to travel, a "laissez-passer" - all - foreigners and native Haitians alike.

During the time I worked in Zaire - 1978-79 - i needed written signed "laissez-passer" from the provincial Governor and General for any travel outside the city of Lubumbashi. Many other similar restrictions all around the world - like curfew - restriction to go out during certain times of day - during war in Pnomh Penh, Cambodia in the 1970-ties. Or restricted access to fuel - in Zaire or in Cambodia.

Restrictions to import foreign currency or export your savings in and out of countries. Restrictions to import or export goods.

Such restrictions are spread all over the world in various countries and many fields of activities. Restrictions to select or practice a job of your free choice. Restrictions to marry or divorce to have children or to educate as you like are existing far more than many know.

If such values are important - what exactly are you doing to maintain them, to protect or enforce them in a peaceful, loving and efficient way. Are you investing a reasonable amount of efforts, time and financial resources to maintain and expand in a free, loving and peaceful way your important values in your country and culture ?
Personal values and moral values

Can you express love the way you love to. Can you dress the way you love to ? Do you have freedom in medical treatment - freedom to select between chemo-medicine or or traditional divine or herbal medicine ?

Can you select the way you are dying and when ? Can you freely select the way and place your bodily remains may be used, disposed or buried ?

Can you eat what you want, dress how you like, learn what you love, see the movies you love or watch the TV channels you are interested in ? Or is there censorship, control and restriction imposed by someone ?

Can you select the partner for life you love most or are marriages arranged and partners imposed upon you by parents or society ?
Nutritional values of your food

Is the food offered to you natural and the way you love it most - or has your country turned into a chemical factory for manufactured food, genetically modified food and junk food making normal God made natural food either too expensive to be affordable or pushed out of market and store shelves to make place for higher profit manufactured industrial food products ?

Is the food you are being offered controlled and manipulated by rules and regulations or are farmers free to produce and offer their own natural products directly to end consumers ? Can you decide yourself from what country bananas, apples, fruits, vegetables and other agriculture products of any kind are - or is your food market controlled by import restrictions and other laws ?
Values of life often only become valuable to most after they have lost them - many or most first need to lose what they have to realize how much they had and to become aware of what truly mattered to them and was truly important to them !

The most valuable things in life can neither be stored in a bank account - nor in a vault or purse - the most valuable aspects of life are of different nature - NON-material !
Core values of life

For all human beings - the core values or key values are very much the same.
Freedom

To do what they love to do and need to do
Free choice

To select from infinite options life offers always the one option best suitable for your needs
Freedom of love

To love how and who they want
Freedom of progressing

Moving to other locations is but a means to most efficiently achieve spiritual goals often subconsciously aware. The innermost spiritual core of each human knows the spiritual ( religious ) needs to re-gain freedom or to learn to love in order to regain freedom. Hence the inner driving force to achieve such most efficient spiritual progress requires absolute freedom to meet, see, socialize with all those being part of your learning process or your dissolving and spiritual healing process.
Freedom of meeting and socializing

To meet, love, marry and have friends who ever you select and whatever their nationality or location may be.
Freedom of truth-finding

To know the absolute truth about everything. To know about God and our origin, to know how to return the most efficient and most direct way, to know all spiritual rules and laws, to know how to achieve our inner and outer freedom and to regain our spiritual power, freedom, peace and love potential.
Freedom of self realization and God realization

To become one with God, return home to our eternal home. To truly know who we are and know our past and future - to know all about our true eternal origin and nature of our being and to live it again in oneness with God.
How much are you investing in restoring or maintaining all true values of your life
Find out your values of life - and fully support these values with all your heart, soul and divine power of love !

From those living in "industrialized first world countries" most are spending thousands of $, £, €, ¥, ... each year for material belongings and temporary material values such as cellphone, cars, TV, electronics, computers and other gadgets of life ....

All those are thus spending hundreds or more of working hours each year to obtain and maintain such material values. and to learn purely intellectual temporary knowledge needed to achieve such outer and temporary things in life.

How much however do you invest in time, efforts and money to educate yourself in lasting eternal values. In spiritual knowledge, in knowing how to be a truly loving partner for your eternal living partner, how to be a loving father and friend for all others ??

Are you supporting, protecting and actively maintaining all those values of life that really appear valuable to you - OR - are you taking all those values of life for granted ... until you have lost them one day - just to realize how much you had and what truly matters to you ! When people lose freedom, source of happiness or partner of life, then this loss occurs for one single reason only - they failed to invest the needed amount or quantity of available resources into these sources of values. They spent too much time, efforts, study, money and power toward material goals - leaving no time nor other urgently needed resources to maintain, protect and free the love needed for their truly happy-making values of life.

To regain lost values of life may take years, decades or longer and most of the time all your fortune down to the very last cent - to maintain may take just a honest amount of daily efforts and resources.

Importance of The Family

Back in the old days, when our race was healthy, it was common knowledge that large families were the key to future greatness. In the years immediately preceding the rise of both Greece and Rome the average home contained two parents, and three or more children. This was the prerequisite for all their later accomplishments. Shortly after the situation was reversed, with empty cribs becoming the norm, these states began to decline.

Let’s bring this discussion closer to home. Here is the primary question we need to answer: Why aren’t National Socialist couples having more children? To begin with, there are some in our ranks who work to keep women out of the movement. Yes, these individuals constantly inform us about how terrible the female sex really is, and then whine pathetically: “ There must be one good woman left somewhere.”

You don’t need a master’s degree in psychology to predict the consequences of such behavior. None of our men like it when a feminist says that we’re all worthless, so there’s no sense blaming women for avoiding those who treat them in a similar manner. Fortunately, this attitude hasn’t infected the entire movement; no, it is only promoted by lonely, wanna-be racist Romeos suffering from the “poor me, I don’t have a girlfriend” syndrome. This does us some harm, especially when these people act as a young girls first contact, but in reality they’re the least of our problems – which is why we’ll move on to more serious concerns.

It has been said that white women are too materialistic, and this keeps them from making decent wives. Even if there is some truth here, let’s take a look at reality: a woman’s instincts have always, and will always, tell her that a successful man makes a better husband and father. This is natural, and it wasn’t a bad thing until honor and courage were no longer synonymous with public esteem.

The trouble starts, however, the moment economic considerations become the most important standard of judgment. If money is everything then the scoundrel will generally find it easier to accumulate wealth, as those who possess scruples will hesitate before doing what it takes. Example: you can make five million dollars poisoning our young people with cocaine. It’s a can’t miss proposition, with a low risk factor. Are you going to do it? Me neither, but someone will, and (financially speaking) they’ll be sitting pretty.

Once things reach this stage, marriages are made out of convenience, love is removed from the equation, and it is the children who suffer. That shouldn’t be a shock, since most of us can’t compete economically with a Jew banker or black athlete. This would be a reason to despair, if there wasn’t a solution, but that isn’t the case. While we may not have the biggest wallets there is an area where no one else can compete with us.

You see, the same natural instincts we discussed earlier also tell a woman that she should desire a man – by which I mean someone who really is one. Going back to this example, if a human puke has a huge bank account because he poisoned our people, his reward shouldn’t be a beautiful white woman, but rather a bullet in the head. In other words, whiners are never respected, but men rarely have trouble with a lack of interest from the opposite sex.

Anther objection against having kids goes something like this: “Many of us will have to risk our lives to overthrow the existing power structure; therefore it would be wrong to leave a woman with a house full of children.” Perhaps, but the revolutionary is forced to respond by pointing out that it does no good to win on the field of battle, if we’re only going to lose the victory due to an inability to replace our best blood.

This is a very real concern; as initially only the most dedicated will even consider acting upon their beliefs. Certainly, that rules out most who offer the “high risk” excuse for not having families, but even sincere individuals need to remember the following facts: In Europe more whites die each year than are being born. Things aren’t much better in the United States, and such problems are only going to get worse once shots are fired – unless we’re prepared, and begin correcting the problem immediately.

Personally, I believe a man with kids has more to fight for. Others disagree, and say a family enables the System to get a handle on you. Maybe. Then again, people who always find reasons not to act, probably never would anyway. Still, a widow left caring for a house of children deserves not only our sympathy, but also our support. I should add that there will be no victory unless all of us are willing to sacrifice, and women often prove tougher than some might imagine.

Financial difficulties are another factor that prevents many young whites from marrying and having children. Early marriage is important for two reasons: first, it prevents a generation gap from developing. If too many years separate parents from their kids, it becomes a lot harder for either side to communicate properly. Second, almost everyone in their 30’s has had at least one bad relationship. Once this happens the individual becomes cynical, and this makes it difficult to create the mutual trust that is so important for a stable home life.

There is a simple way to overcome the problems caused by financial hardships: we need to help each other. There is nothing stopping a handful of families from getting together and home schooling their children. If everyone kicked in, it would allow a couple of mothers to teach full time. In fact, numerous avenues exist for us to alleviate cost of living concerns, but they require idealistic behavior, combined with a desire to assist our kinfolks. This is the type of morality we want to build a society around, but an inability to practice it on a small scale would reveal that we’re just playing games.

This is our motto: We must secure the existence of our people and a future for white children. It is obvious that one way to accomplish this involves having large families – as our race and our beliefs live on through them. Yes, many movement comedians have told you the exact opposite, but think about this: National Socialists often discuss the possibility of racial extinction. Numerically, we’re already a tiny minority on this planet, and neglecting to have children does nothing except further the goals of our enemies. I doubt that is what any of us want, so we should be glad that the solution is so obvious.

Relationship Ambiguity - Boyfriend & Girlfriend?

Our need to define and label relationships begins way before we become adults or even teenagers. Particularly for women. For starters, I recall the "best friend" necklaces that caused so many fights as a child, because they forced us kids to pick one best friend and share a broken necklace with them. There were "best friends" and "second best friends" and "best-est friends". Deep down, we were craving to be identified as that one special friend in someone else's life. To be placed above all other friends and feel important, wanted and cared for.

I don't know if boys did this as children, or if they just wanted to be well-liked in general. I know that as adults, women are usually the ones that want to label romantic relationships whereas men typicall prefer to hold off on defining things. Part of it could be evolutionary, with the woman needing the security of one man to be the father of her children, and the man wanting to spread his seed wherever possible.

In the past few years, I've come to both love and hate labels. Whether they define relationships, personal acheivements, beliefs, or whatever. I've learned that labels lead to all sorts of expectations and pre-conceived notions. And labels can rob an individual of his/her uniqueness or force a relationship to comply with certain standards. I know that I am a stronger person when I don't rely on lables to define me. Labels such as my job title, my physical/mental health conditions, my relationship status or something as simple as the "label" on my handbag. I see many people who use designer labels to help establish a sense of identity and status. I'm just me and I'm fluid and I change as I go through life and experience different things. The more self-awareness I have and the more honest I am about my feelings and needs, the less I need a label for a sense of security and identity.

"What are the roles of the husband and wife in a family?"

Although male and female are equal in relationship to Christ, the Scriptures give specific roles to each in marriage. The husband is to assume headship/leadership in the home (1 Corinthians 11:3; Ephesians 5:23). This headship should not be dictatorial, condescending, or patronizing of the wife, but should be in accordance with the example of Christ leading the Church. “You husbands must love your wives with the same love Christ showed the church. He gave up his life for her to make her holy and clean, washed by baptism and God's word” (Ephesians 5:25-26). Christ loved the Church (His people) with compassion, mercy, forgiveness, respect, and selflessness; in this same way husbands are to love their wives.

Wives are to submit to the authority of their husbands. “You wives will submit to your husbands as you do to the Lord. For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of his body, the church; He gave His life to be her Savior. As the church submits to Christ, so you wives must submit to your husbands in everything” (Ephesians 5:22-24). Being submissive is not only the responsibility of women who have Christian husbands. We should never submit to our husbands if it requires disobeying God; the relationship we have with Him is the most important (Deuteronomy 6:5). But preaching, nagging, whining, and refusing to serve will only turn an unbelieving husband away from God more. Instead, showing her husband the love of Christ through godly behavior, serving him and loving him, will give him an excellent example of how Christ served and loved the church. If a Christian woman has an unbeliever for a husband, she must not leave him if he wants to stay with her. And if a Christian husband has an unbeliever for a wife, he must not leave her if she wants to stay with him. But if the unbelieving spouse wants to leave, it is okay to let them go (1 Corinthians 7:12-15).

Although women should submit to their husbands, the Bible also tells men several times how they are supposed to treat their wives. The husband is not to take on the role of the dictator, but show respect for his wife and her opinions as well. “In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man is actually loving himself when he loves his wife. No one hates his own body but lovingly cares for it...” (Ephesians 5:28-29). “So I say again, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband” (Ephesians 5:33). “You wives must submit to your husbands, as is fitting for those who belong to the Lord. And you husbands must love your wives and never treat them harshly” (Colossians 3:18-19). “In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat her with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life. If you don't treat her as you should, your prayers will not be heard” (1 Peter 3:7). From these verses, we see that love and respect characterize the roles of both husbands and wives. If these are present, authority, headship, love and submission will be no problem for either partner.

In regard to the division of responsibilities in the home, the Bible instructs husbands to provide for their families. This means he works and makes enough money to sufficiently provide all the necessities of life for his wife and children. To fail to do so has definite spiritual consequences. “But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an infidel” (1Timothy 5:8). An infidel is one who is an unbeliever. So a man who makes no effort to provide for his family cannot rightly call himself a Christian. This does not mean that the wife cannot assist in supporting the family—Proverbs 31 demonstrates that a godly wife may surely do so—but providing for the family is not primarily her responsibility—it is her husband’s. While a husband should help with the children and with household chores (thereby fulfilling his duty to love his wife), Proverbs 31 also makes it clear that the home is to be the woman’s primary area of influence and responsibility. Notice that her real estate ventures do not preclude her preparing food and making clothing for her household (vv. 13-24). Even if she must stay up late and rise up early, her family is well cared for. This is not an easy lifestyle for many women—especially in affluent Western nations—and too many women are stressed out and stretched to the breaking point by trying to wear too many hats. When this occurs, both husband and wife should prayerfully reorder their priorities and follow the Bible’s instructions on their roles.

Conflicts regarding the division of labor in a marriage are bound to occur, but if both partners are submitted to Christ, these conflicts will be minimal. If a couple finds arguments over this issue are frequent and rancorous, or they seem to characterize the marriage, the problem is a spiritual one, and the partners should recommit themselves to prayer and submission to Christ first, then to one another in an attitude of love and respect.

Differences B etwwn Love And Like

In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster
But in front of the person you like , you get happy.

In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring
But in front of the person you like, winter is just a beautiful winter.

If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush
But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.

In front of the person you love, you can' t say everything on your mind
But in front of the person you like, you can.

In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy
But in front of the person you like, you can show your ownself.

Then person you love comes into your mind every 2 minutes.
You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.

When the one you love is crying, you cry with them
But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.

The feeling of love starts from the eye
And the feeling of like starts from the ear.

So if you stop liking a person you used to like
All you need to do is cover your ears,
But if you try to close your eyes
Love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever after.

Love is Life

Love is the only gold

Love is the only gold.

In the long years liker they must grow; The man be more of woman, she of man.

Such a one do I remember, whom to look at was love.

And my all time favorite, ” ‘Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all.”

“Sweet is true love that is given in vain, and sweet is death that takes away pain.”

“Who loves not a false imagining, an unreal character in us; but looking through all the rubbish of our imperfections, loves in us the divine ideal of our natures - not the man that we are, but the angel that we may be.”

Difference between love & romance?

There are differences between men and women in their approach to love and relationships. True intimacy can be very different to "romantic love". "Romantic love" is sold to young women in many ways such as magazines, television, books and the internet. "Romantic love" can put sex before safety.

For young women "romantic love" may mean:

"Falling in love" just happens it is not in our control
We are seen as a better, more complete person if we have a partner
It's good to put your partner's needs before your own
Jealousy and bad behaviour are okay
Jealousy shows your partner really cares about you
If we love a partner we must trust and believe in them unconditionally

These ideas may encourage you to excuse bad behaviour instead of taking it as a warning sign and backing out of a relationship before you are too attached. One example of how we may excuse bad behaviour is: Excusing your partner's pressure to not wear a condom because that may mean you don't trust or love him enough.

For young men ideas of "romantic love" may mean:

I am the most important person in a romantic relationship
My ideas are usually the right ideas
I deserve unconditional love and support
I deserve my partner's trust, despite bad behaviour in the past
My needs are more important to my partner than her friends' needs
If I feel hurt and jealous I may not be able to stop myself hurting my partner
Jealousy is a normal part of a lot of relationships, not always something men can control

These ideas may have young men excusing some very unfair and hurtful behaviour that could lead on to a pattern of established abuse.

‘Rock On’ with the September issue of ‘Rolling Stone’

This proves the credibility of Farhan Akhtar’s awaited ‘Rock On’ as a film truly devoted to rock music. The September issue of the smash hit music magazine ‘Rolling Stone’ has got the entire team of ‘Rock On’ on its cover. The same magazine has already featured music Maestro A.R. Rahman himself on the cover of its Indian edition.

The film is one of its kind in the sense that it is the first Indian film made on rock music and revolves around a rock band. This issue covers an exclusive behind the scene look at film and also carries article featuring a classy photo shoot involving the four lead actors — Farhan, Arjun Rampal, Luke Kenny and Purab Kohli, and the trio of Shankar, Ehsaan & Loy who have scored the movie’s rock based music. If this is not enough, you also have an interview of India’s only female rapper Hard Kaur.

Akshay Kumar’s in Khatro Ka Khiladi Act at Levi’s 501 Launch

After setting the Indian and Pakistani box offices on fire with the massive hit Singh is Kinng, Akshay (literally) set the modeling ramp on fire at a fashion show to mark American jeans and casual wear manufacturer Levi Strauss launching its brand Levi's 501 in India.

Akshay Kumar, who has become one of the biggest Bollywood stars in the past couple of years, has also snapped up some high profile brand endorsement deals as of late. Levi's is another feather in the cap for the 40 year old actor.

This global launch of Levi's 501 jeans has taken place across 110 countries and a local celebrity has been roped in to endorse this brand only in India. "This campaign gives us an opportunity to let a new generation of jeans consumers around the world know that the original, quintessential 501 jeans are contemporary and relevant to their lifestyle. Akshay Kumar fits perfectly as an ambassador for Levis because he understand the youth in India better than any research, which is perhaps the reason why he is so successful," said Levi Strauss India country manager Shumone Chatterjee.

Speaking at the launch, Akshay Kumar said, "The word unbuttoned appealed to me as it has special meaning. As I see it, Unbuttoning is not an act, but an attitude! I am very selective in choosing the brands I endorse. The image and positioning of the brand is of utmost importance. Levi's and me have a perfect fit in that respect. I am extremely excited about being a part of this brand and campaign - now and in the future!"

Akshay Kumar's fashion show debut saw him sizzle. He stepped on the stage with his shirt missing and his jeans on fire. After a brief pause, he walked the ramp with a bevy of beauties. Akshay Kumar was actively participating in the way it was run. He actually called for curvaceous models to accompany him on the ramp. According to the fashion choreographer Marc Robinson, it's rare to see this kind of active involvement and enthusiasm. And Akshay is one such among those. However, he made light of his first experience on ramp."Very easy. Seedha chalo. Dil kare toh beech mein ruk jao. Look left, look right, then walk again," he said, flashing his gummy grin.

"I have maintained myself well and I can carry any product that targets youth. I endorse products which I believe in," said Akshay.

"I strongly believe that Levis is a good brand and I have been associated with it since my childhood. The first jeans that my father bought for me was a pair of Levis," said Akshay who is the first Indian celebrity to have been incorporated by the company for endorsement. "Though the company has used various words to describe its new product, what I can say is that my butt looks good in the jeans," Akshay said at the launch of the Levis 501 brand.

Akshay will be seen in a series of ad campaigns for the brand. The first television commercial will go on air this week. On being asked what his wife's, former actress Twinkle Khanna reaction was to the television ad, Akshay laughingly replied "I have not shown it to her yet!"

Akshay Kumar seems to be able to do no wrong these days. The actor, who was very popular in the 90s as an action hero (and his much publicized relationship with Raveena Tandon), has come into his own over the past few years in Bollywood.

He's had only one film fail at the box office in the past one year (Tashan), and now has a reality TV show (Khatron Ka Khiladi), and several upcoming films that all look very promising. While he still has not entered the league of the Khans: Shahrukh and Aamir, who have become producers making immensely successful films like Om Shanti Om and Jaane Tu Ya Jaane Na respectively, Akshay's success as an actor and entertainer has proved that this Kumar, is truly Kinng!

Katrina laughs off marriage plans

"I will marry next year," that's what the bad boy of Bollywood has been telling eveyone who keep asking him questions about his impending marriage with Katrina Kaif.

“I am so bored with this question which I have been asked so many times,” he says. “Every year I say ‘Next Year’ and this goes on.’”

However this year he sounds serious with his plans. Talking to a leading tabloid Sallu again replied, "I’m settling down in 2009 and would like to become a father immediately. "

According to sources, Salman has also popped 'the question' from several quarters: from the media to guests on his show 10 Ka Dum. Akshay made it a point to ask Sallu when he was planning to marry Kat, when he appeared on Khan's show with the actress.

But Katrina who has tasted success at the box-office recently is not as ecstatic.

She laughs off any talks of marriage. The actress says, "I think Salman said whatever he wanted to say. Let people make of it whatever they want. I have never commented on the personal side in the media. I don't wish to start right now."

Watch RGV's Phoonk, alone in a theatre and win Rs 5 lakh

MUMBAI: After the failure of Sarkar Raj and Contract (we're not even bringing up Ram Gopal Varma Ki Aag), Ramu has devised a new way to promote his next film, Phoonk. This hardcore horror flick is set to release next month. And Ramu claims that Phoonk is the scariest of all his horror films.

So much so that now Ramu and Azam Khan, his producer, have, rather immodestly, announced a prize money of Rs 5 lakh for anyone who can dare to see the film all alone in the theatre. Darna strictly mana hai.

Azam Khan says, “We're confident that the film is so scary that it will be extremely difficult to watch it all alone in a theatre. We will be running a contest and giving out details on our website about how to participate in it. Right now we have decided that we will screen the film for the winners of the contest a few days before the release of the film, that is on August 22. At the moment we have planned four trials that we will screen in a preview theatre.”

The condition is simple - anyone who wants to win Rs 5 lakh has to watch the film from start to finish, without getting out of the theatre . The contest will be well-publicised . We are now working out the logistics of date and time.”

Although Ram Gopal Varma remained unavailable for comment, his close friend says, “Ramu is very confident of the film and knows that he has made one of the scariest film on black magic and that's why he is ready to challenge viewers.” Any takers?

Shilpa Shetty amidst controversies for her show

Shilpa Shetty’s ‘Big Boss 2’ has been very eventful right from the beginning. First, it was the sad exit of Jade Goody and now it is Rakhi Sawant who is going about telling TV channels that a contestant on the show has probably been changes because of Shilpa. Also, some people held a dharna in Lonavla in front of the Big Boss house, threw stones at the channel colors’ office and burnt Shilpa’s effigy.

Shilpa is outraged at Rakhi’s allegations and says,

“I don’t even want to talk about her. But I was very hurt. I really like Rakhi. Why was she talking this way about me without knowing the facts?

How does she know the facts about how contestants were chosen? I don’t think it’s right for anyone to shoot off her mouth in this way.

You may have an outspoken image that you’re always eager to uphold. But please don’t flaunt that image at my cost.”

To be known here that a person named Ramdas Atahavle was approached to go into the house. He claims he was dropped because of Shilpa’s manoeuvres.

Shilpa appears bewildered at these charges.

“It’s the channel’s prerogative to select or reject a candidate. Until two days prior to the show I didn’t even know who was going.

The format doesn’t allow the host to know the contestants. Mr Athavle claims he was dropped on discriminatory grounds because he was a Dalit and Sanjay Nirupam was taken instead.”

An outraged Shilpa says, “Why was I being blamed if a candidate didn’t make it into Big Boss? Why were they throwing stones at the channel Colors’ office and burning my effigy?

Why me? Every time I’m associated with something people try to use my name for their own purposes. Please leave me alone.”

My phone went ballistic on Tuesday. I’m in the midst of a dozen things and then to be badgered like this! I’m human and I don’t like my name being constantly used. Don’t hit where it hurts the most. I think they should start auctioning my effigies.”

Shilpa laughs at Rakhi saying,

“But really, Rakhi Sawant takes the cake. What authority does she have to make such charges against me?

I’d have Rakhi know that it’s the channel’s prerogative to decide the participants. I’m hired by the channel to do a job. My jurisdiction is to go on stage and host the show.”

Source :- http://www.bollywood-stars.net

Neha Dhupia at the launch party of Lingerie brand

With a new number of companies frequently coming into India and emerging market in fashion led one more international brand to launch its product from India. The Secret Lingerie launched its range in Mumbai at a party with Neha Dhupia being guest over there at the launch party.

Source :- http://www.bollywood-stars.net/

‘Bachna Ae Haseeno’ crew at a Press Meet

May be it a recovering act, after initial bad reports the crew of ‘Bachna Ae Haseeno’ including Ranbir Kapoor, Deepika Padukone and Bipasha Basu met at Yash Raj studios for a press conference and the other one is scheduled within two weeks. All the best luck to ‘Bachna Ae Haseeno.’

Source :- http://www.bollywood-stars.net

Shahid-Vidya romance

A cheering crowd of fans greeted Shahid Kapur and Vidya Balan at the red carpet premiere of Kismat Konnection in the Capital on Friday night. And although the lead pair has been feverishly denying any romantic connection off the screen, everyone was asking them the million-dollar-question first up.

“It’s my private space, we are good friends, beyond that if people are going to write, there is not much one can do about it,” stated Shahid.

Vidya too made it clear that there was no romance in the air.

“We are co-stars who get along well, which is what shows on screen and that’s about it for the moment,” she said.

True or false, the romantic rumour surely promoted the movie in a big way. But the stars couldn’t help but disagree.

“I think a good film always does well. If the film is good people will like it. Nothing else can make it work,” said Shahid.

“Honestly I don’t know how much all this hype helps. A good film works irrespective,” added Vidya.

Well, only time will tell if Shahid and Vidya can connect with the audience or not. Meanwhile, Vidya, who’s been repeatedly slammed by the fashion police, believes that the movie has helped her connect with her style quotient like never before.

“I have been getting a lot of compliments for my look in the movie. I am sporting a new western look,” she stated.

Well, that’s a little hard to believe and will have to watch the movie to really know if Vidya can be taken at her word.

Source :- http://www.bollywoodstars.com/

What is Love

"Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away."

"Love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale... Love loves; this is its nature."

A Nice Story about Love

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me.
Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."

This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you .

For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."

Passing thought... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away.....

Life is beautiful!!! Live it !!!

Lucky And Mann

Researchers (Hatfield & Rapson, 1995) have broken up love into two main types:

* Passionate love which involves continuously thinking about the loved one and also involves warm sexual feelings and powerful emotional reactions.
* Companionate love is having trusting and tender feelings for someone who is close to you.

Now one of the best known theories of love (which means an educated guess that isn't proven fact) is Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love.

The three components of the Triangular Theory of Love are:

Passion, the feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone.

Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment.

Intimacy, the feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time).

Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.

Commitment, pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship.

Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough.

Now Sternberg also uses his Triangular Theory of Love to answer some of the most commonly asked questions about love:

Is there love at first sight?

This is when we are overwhelmed by passion, without any intimacy or commitment (both of which take time). Sternberg calls this infatuated love, Because there is not intimacy or commitment, infatuated love is fated to fade away.

Why do some people get married after being in love for a very short time?

This is a combination of passion and commitment, but without any intimacy. Sternberg calls this Hollywood love. This is where two people make a commitment to each other based on their passion. Unless intimacy develops over time, this relationship most likely will end.

Can their be love without sex?

Ah yes, companionate love, where intimacy and commitment are present without any sexual passion.

Why doesn't romantic love last?

Passion and intimacy without commitment is Romantic love. When the passion fades, and the intimacy wanes, the relationship ends.

This a close friend sent me e-mail:

Infatuation vs. Love

Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."

Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.

The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for.